Post by jenzie on Sept 12, 2011 11:11:51 GMT -8
Okay, so I know not everyone knows my situation so here it is,
I am in a semi-perfect relationship ( of course nothing is perfect and we argue ) however, we are pretty mellow. Well before Kevin and I actually started dating he told me he was getting a chick roommate ( who works with us ) and when I found out who it was I was perfectly 'okay' with it since she isn't exactly the prettiest thing walking, in fact she really isn't pretty at all and she's annoying/immature considering she's 23, two years older than me.
Anyway, I've been doing my best to get along with her even though I'm not comfortable in the situation where my boyfriend lives with a chick especially when he tells me that she calls him bitching that she thinks I hate her. Okay listen, I spent over $40 bucks on this bitch and her fat friend because I was ordering pizza and I figured I'd be nice and offer to buy them something. We sat at the table for two hours just talking and I was working on a fairly good 'relationship' with her. But the thing is, is that I'm not there for HER, I'm not Dating HER. I'm there for Kevin and Dash ( his dog ) I'm dating him.
Well this afternoon when I was recovering his computer like he asked me to, he called me and was pissed off because apparently Jessica ( his roommate ) called him upset/crying because she thinks I hate her ( AGAIN! ) and was all "Well I said good morning to her and she didn't say anything back and she's always ignoring me blah blah blah." I flipped my shit and was like "Are you fucking kidding me? She was making a shit ton of noise in the kitchen and I had JUST woken up to take Dash outside and I said goodmorning, it's not my fault that she didn't hear me." but regardless she caused more tension between him & I and we had another argument because I felt like she was coming between him & I and making more drama than needed.
I honestly don't know what to do at this point. He wants me to move in with him but if I do I'd be living with her until their lease is up in a year. I honestly have no problem with her at all until now. Kevin even bitched her out and told her she needs to stop txting me every single day and trying to hard to play nice with me when I already have so much going on in my life at the moment with my family and personal issues. I'm just stressing out and idk I never said anything mean to her and if I didn't like her I wouldn't spend money on her or her friend, I just don't understand it and I don't know what I did wrong?
Regardless, Kevin & I are still together, still perfectly fine and making it work even with all her dramatic nonsense. I just wish she would talk to ME about it instead of crying to MY boyfriend.
UGH immature girls annoy the piss out of me!
I am in a semi-perfect relationship ( of course nothing is perfect and we argue ) however, we are pretty mellow. Well before Kevin and I actually started dating he told me he was getting a chick roommate ( who works with us ) and when I found out who it was I was perfectly 'okay' with it since she isn't exactly the prettiest thing walking, in fact she really isn't pretty at all and she's annoying/immature considering she's 23, two years older than me.
Anyway, I've been doing my best to get along with her even though I'm not comfortable in the situation where my boyfriend lives with a chick especially when he tells me that she calls him bitching that she thinks I hate her. Okay listen, I spent over $40 bucks on this bitch and her fat friend because I was ordering pizza and I figured I'd be nice and offer to buy them something. We sat at the table for two hours just talking and I was working on a fairly good 'relationship' with her. But the thing is, is that I'm not there for HER, I'm not Dating HER. I'm there for Kevin and Dash ( his dog ) I'm dating him.
Well this afternoon when I was recovering his computer like he asked me to, he called me and was pissed off because apparently Jessica ( his roommate ) called him upset/crying because she thinks I hate her ( AGAIN! ) and was all "Well I said good morning to her and she didn't say anything back and she's always ignoring me blah blah blah." I flipped my shit and was like "Are you fucking kidding me? She was making a shit ton of noise in the kitchen and I had JUST woken up to take Dash outside and I said goodmorning, it's not my fault that she didn't hear me." but regardless she caused more tension between him & I and we had another argument because I felt like she was coming between him & I and making more drama than needed.
I honestly don't know what to do at this point. He wants me to move in with him but if I do I'd be living with her until their lease is up in a year. I honestly have no problem with her at all until now. Kevin even bitched her out and told her she needs to stop txting me every single day and trying to hard to play nice with me when I already have so much going on in my life at the moment with my family and personal issues. I'm just stressing out and idk I never said anything mean to her and if I didn't like her I wouldn't spend money on her or her friend, I just don't understand it and I don't know what I did wrong?
Regardless, Kevin & I are still together, still perfectly fine and making it work even with all her dramatic nonsense. I just wish she would talk to ME about it instead of crying to MY boyfriend.
UGH immature girls annoy the piss out of me!